Guess, there is a reason behind the saying "you should never think about the spilled milk". Guess they had their logic behind this when they termed it. Nevertheless, i believe past is past and we need to keep moving ahead with the times and whats ahead of us. There wouldn't be a satisfying or consoling reply to one's self of peeping back at the past, even though u need to take the essence out of what lies in the back of you and see if it can help you to create what lies ahead of you. In that way, it would make life bit ease and helps u to unburden and uncomplicate with urself, and be peace with yourself. Sometimes, stuffs just happen which you have no control over it. Its like u have been a puppet in someone'e else hand and u r just mere performer and someone deep inside is running the show outside for you, and best, without your knowledge at that moment. Sounds bit corny, but if u look deep within, we all would have been at this kind of situations, so many times, that without our knowledge we would have said or done something, only to realise a little later, that actually you never meant for that roll out of u, but it still did. So whats the solution, i am still trying to figure out. But i am sure, there's one master deep within us, who runs the show subconsciously for us. Who choses, does, talk, say or perform on our behest, wearing our mask and the best, without our knowledge of it. But at the end, the outer visible persona of us bears the brunt of it. I think its for both good and bad. If good happens, the outer persona pats himself on the back, if bad strikes, we look for some reason.
All said and done, one lesson learnt in past few days. Shit happens. And, you need to rise from it and keep moving ahead. Coz life is worth it. U should never beat urself down for stuffs which happen around you, which you are part of, with or without your knowledge. Just keep moving ahead with your chest out and chin up. Ignore the hypocrites who will be on their toes to judge you for what represents at the outset. There would be lots of them to judge and label for what you are not, and for what they would have seen that part which you are truly not. Its just situational. Its circumstantial. They would be so blind that they cant see thru one's self to realise the truth. It takes a lot more to see someone at their deeper level of their behavior and not just the outset. Coz, the outer persona doesn't define one's inner personality. What defines you is your true self within you. What defines you is what are you made up of? Are you a person who has good intentions deep within? Are you a person who wants to keep moving ahead, rise from ashes, learn from your mistakes and make your life and of others better? Are you a good human? Are you a person who wishes no harm from deep within but cares for even for those whom doesnt relate to you or make a difference to you? Are you a person who is good to those who hurt you? Its not sign of a weak. Its the sign of someone who is strong from deep within. But i feel, we all show the worst to only those whom we truly feel and care to the closest and deepest of our heart. Imagine, there are billions of people on the planet. But yet, we chose only one person whom we want to share everything and anything. Both good and bad. Only to tht person, we wish to open ourselves up completely, irrespective of the outcome or its consequences. Why's that? Coz you want that person to know who you really made up of. Can you decide a person based on a particular incident//incidents? Or, is that person just overreacting based on his situation at that moment? We never cease to think from the other side, as we are so busy trying to prove ourselves within and satisfy our ego that what we say or do is right. Can u arrive at a conclusion by overlooking an situation? It might be just a situation. But, do know that every situation has several sides to it. It all depends on what you wish to see and what your mind wants you to see. Thats why I believe, we all do mistakes. We are humans after all. But we need to develop a sense of positive outlook towards life. Coz thats worth it. Coz thats what life is all about. Its not about receiving, but its all about giving. The joy we get in giving, is ten times higher in what we recieve. Try it. You may might feel it too.
